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Andrew Gonzalez, Luxury Custom JewelerLuxury Custom Jewelerby Andrew Gonzalez

Pear diamonds, chosen in person

Pear engagement rings in San Diego: the outline is everything, so pick it with your eyes.

I’m Andrew Gonzalez, a private jeweler in San Diego. Pears are one of the shapes I most insist on showing in person, because two pears with identical paperwork can look like different stones: one with clean shoulders and an even belly, the other lumpy through the middle with a dark bow-tie. There is no cut grade to save you here. If you’re considering a pear, we sit down by appointment, I put real stones on the desk, and you decide with a loupe in hand before a single decision is locked in.

30+ years of experience building custom engagement rings, wedding bands, and custom jewelry. GIA Applied Jewelry Professional.

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What I’ll want to know

  1. How dramatic she wants the point: subtle teardrop or a real statement.
  2. A photo of any pear she's saved. The outline she chose tells me a lot.
  3. The range, and whether both origins should be on the desk.

What gets decided

The point gets an engineering plan before the ring gets a look.

The tip of a pear is its most vulnerable spot, so the setting starts there: a protective prong or partial bezel over the point, a height that suits how she uses her hands, and a band plan agreed before production begins.

Why the outline matters more than the certificate

A pear’s grading report tells you weight, color, and clarity. It does not tell you whether the shoulders are even, whether the wings curve gracefully into the point, or how strong the bow-tie shadow is across the middle. Those are the things you actually see on the hand every day, and they are what I am looking at when I source pears one at a time. Most of what I get offered goes back for one of those three reasons.

Natural and lab-grown pears both come through my desk, and I judge them by the same standard. At many budgets the honest move is to compare both origins face-up in the same lighting and let the stones argue for themselves. I hold no inventory, so I have no reason to steer you either way.

Two pear diamonds with identical paperwork and different outlines
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Setting decisions specific to the pear shape

Once the stone is right, the setting has real jobs to do: guard the tip, balance the asymmetry between the rounded end and the point, and keep the profile low enough for daily life. If a fine diamond-set band appeals to you, the pavé should stay in a supporting role, which is the thinking behind the Pear Pavé design direction. A plain band works just as well when the stone carries the ring on its own.

  • A V-prong or covered tip so the point is protected, not just decorated.
  • Orientation chosen on your hand: point toward the nail, toward the wrist, or angled.
  • Basket height set against how the wedding band will eventually sit.
  • Shoulder and pavé scale kept fine enough to defer to the center stone.
Setting options that guard a pear's point without hiding it
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How this works in San Diego, without the showroom

Everything happens privately and by appointment, not across a counter with a case of preset rings behind me. We agree on the design and the numbers in writing, you approve the final plan before production starts, and the wedding band relationship gets solved on paper before the engagement ring is ever cast. If at any point a pear stops feeling like your shape, walking away costs you nothing but the conversation.

Jeweler's hands checking a pear-shaped stone at the desk
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Inspiration, not inventory

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In their words

We walked in thinking $3,500 wouldn’t get us anything special. Andrew built Jasmine an oval that gets compliments almost weekly, and he never once tried to push us past our number.
Tyler & Jasmine · Custom oval engagement ring

Questions couples ask before the first appointment

Can I actually see loose pear diamonds in San Diego before committing?

Yes. That’s the whole model. I bring in specific pears from trade sources based on your budget and taste, we review them together in person, and nothing moves forward until you’ve seen the stone yourself.

What length-to-width ratio should a pear be?

Most people land somewhere between 1.45 and 1.65, but the number matters less than how the outline looks on your hand. A slightly shorter pear can suit a smaller hand; a longer one reads more dramatic. We try both.

Are pears priced lower than rounds or ovals?

Per carat, pears often cost meaningfully less than rounds of comparable quality, and they tend to face up large for their weight. That gap is real, but I’d rather you spend the savings on a better-cut stone than a bigger mediocre one.

Which way should a pear shaped engagement ring point?

There is no rule worth obeying. Point toward the nail lengthens the finger and is the common choice; point toward the wrist reads vintage, and some people angle it on purpose. We try both directions with the actual stone taped on your hand, and the right answer is visible in seconds.

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Text Andrew the ring style you keep coming back to.

A photo, sketch, or even a rough idea is enough to start. I can usually tell you whether the smartest path is a sourced diamond, a modified setting, a CAD build, or a short call to compare options.

Prefer a call or text?

Prefer to reach Andrew now? Call or text 619-279-7738.

GIA Applied Jewelry Professional
Trained to judge a diamond by eye, not just by its report.
30+ years in jewelry
Buying and selling diamonds and gold wholesale every week.
Most rings in 14 to 30 days
CAD builds can run longer. You know which yours is up front.
The price in writing first
A written plan and a real number before any deposit.