Private San Diego custom engagement rings by Andrew Gonzalez.Start with a photo, diamond shape, or setting you already love.
Andrew Gonzalez — Luxury Custom JewelerLuxury Custom Jewelerby Andrew Gonzalez

Appointment-only custom guidance

A quieter way to make one of the most visible decisions of your life.

I work behind the scenes. Most of my business is wholesale, buying and selling diamonds and gold inside the trade, so I never needed a storefront. What I kept is the part of the work I love: building custom pieces for people, by appointment, without a sales floor between us.

GIA Applied Jewelry Professional (AJP) · 30+ years in the trade · By appointment at the Jewelers Exchange, first floor

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What gets decided

Private doesn’t mean hidden. It means by appointment.

You’ll always find me on the first floor of the Jewelers Exchange downtown, the building where the trade itself buys and sells. Ask anyone there about me. I’ve done business in that building my whole life, and the floor knows me by name.

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Personal, without pressure

Start by texting a photo. I’ll tell you whether the smartest path is a sourced stone, a modified setting, or a CAD build, and roughly what it costs, before you’ve committed to anything. There is no commission structure here and nothing in a case that needs selling.

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Thirty-plus years inside the trade

Jewelry is my family’s business. I’ve owned and managed stores, my own and my family’s, and I hold the GIA Applied Jewelry Professional (AJP) credential. These days most of my week is wholesale, the same buying and selling that stocks the cases other people shop from.

That’s the practical difference. Many rings in retail cases pass through hands like mine before the markup lands on them. Working with me directly, your budget goes into the stone, the metal, and the work.

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Family, literally

My sister and father-in-law run San Diego Jewelry and Loan on the first floor of the Jewelers Exchange, and T behind that counter is still my best source for the gold that goes into my rings. When I say you’re dealing with a family trade instead of a corporate funnel, that’s not a slogan. It’s the floor plan.

Inspiration, not inventory

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I’ll admit the no-storefront thing made me hesitate. Then I met him at the Jewelers Exchange, watched half the floor greet him by name, and had a written quote and a simple contract the same day. Easiest big purchase I’ve ever made.
Dave · Emerald-cut engagement ring

Questions couples ask before the first appointment

Is everything appointment-only?

Yes. Start with a text, a call, or the form. Then we set a time that suits you on the first floor of the Jewelers Exchange downtown, and the stones are on the desk when you arrive.

Can one partner come alone?

Of course. Plenty of engagement rings start with one person, a phone full of screenshots, and a date to keep quiet. Discretion is part of the job.

Why doesn’t a private jeweler have social media?

Old school, honestly. My work has always come from the trade, long-time clients, and their families. This website is the introduction for everyone else.

Text Andrew the ring style you keep coming back to.

A photo, sketch, or even a rough idea is enough to start. I can usually tell you whether the smartest path is a sourced diamond, a modified setting, a CAD build, or a short call to compare options.