Private jeweler · Made to order · San Diego

Custom engagement rings in San Diego, built around a diamond I picked for you.

Most people who text me already know roughly the ring they want. What they want from me is to get it right: a diamond that is genuinely good and not just good on paper, a setting that will last a lifetime, and a number that isn't paying for a showroom or gambling on a website. I'm a private jeweler. I don't carry inventory, so there is nothing I need to sell you. I hand-pick the stone for each client from brokers I have bought from for thirty years, and every ring is made to order, by appointment.

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What I’ll want to know

A photo of anything she's saved or pointed at, even if something about it is wrong.
The number you'd be comfortable with, not the stretch number.
Whether there's a date, and whether the proposal is a surprise.

What gets decided

The plan comes before the ring. The stone comes before the setting.

Every ring starts with a conversation, not a case. From there it's four steps, with the price and the timeline in writing before anything is made. I carry no inventory and pay for no showroom, so every step is about your ring and nothing else. Here's what working with a private jeweler means.

It starts with a conversation

Send the photos she's been saving and the number you're comfortable with, and we'll set up a call. Almost everything starts on the phone: my job in that first conversation is to understand exactly what you're picturing and tell you plainly how to get there. Meeting in person comes later, once there are stones worth looking at.

A consultation call first, arranged around your schedule.
Screenshots, saved posts, or a rough idea are all a fine start.
You'll know what your number gets you before you commit to anything.

One-on-one engagement ring consultation at a private jeweler's desk — AI-generated inspiration imagery.

Choosing how your ring gets made

Custom doesn't always mean starting from zero. Some rings can be made to order from a design that already exists. Some need the right design adjusted: a different setting, a wider band, a lower profile. And some deserve to be designed from scratch. I'll tell you honestly which one your ring needs, because the goal is exactly the ring you want, inside the budget you set.

Made to order: a proven design, built brand new for you.
Modified: an existing design, adjusted until it's hers.
Fully custom: designed from scratch. This is where CAD comes in.

Engagement ring setting options on a cream jeweler's tray in a warm studio — AI-generated inspiration imagery.

Finding your diamond

Once the direction is set, you place a deposit and the search begins. I review dozens of diamonds to find yours; some come from New York, some from London, some are closer. Lab-grown or natural, the standard is the same: the one diamond that's right for your ring and your number, not whatever needs to sell. If you want to choose the stone on its own first, that works too.

The best diamonds go to private jewelers shopping for one client at a time. What's left gets sold in bulk online.
I'm a GIA Applied Jewelry Professional: trained to judge a diamond by eye, not just by its report.
Natural and lab-grown both welcome. Neither pushed.

Two loose diamonds compared side by side next to a grading report in a jeweler's tray — AI-generated inspiration imagery.

Building your ring

With the diamond chosen and the design settled, your ring goes into production. Every choice here is about the next fifty years, not just the proposal photo: how it wears every day, how the stone is protected, how the wedding band will sit against it. If there's a proposal date, we plan backward from it so the ring is ready when you are.

Most rings finish in about 14 to 30 days, start to finish.
Built to last, and comfortable enough to wear without thinking about it.
A deposit when your diamond is ordered; the balance before the ring is finished.

Jeweler's hands inspecting an engagement ring setting in a warm private studio — AI-generated inspiration imagery.

Inspiration, not inventory

Design directions to customize

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Oval Solitaire

A graceful oval center stone with clean metal, generous light, and a shape that feels romantic without becoming ornate.

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Elongated Cushion

A soft rectangular center with a plush outline, generous sparkle, and a less expected profile than a round brilliant.

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Radiant Hidden Halo

A rectangular brilliant center with hidden detail under the crown for sparkle that feels discovered up close.

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Classic round solitaire engagement ring on a woman's left hand ring finger in a warm jeweler's studio

Classic Solitaire

A focused, minimal ring that lets the diamond carry the emotion, proportions, and light.

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Round Bezel

A round brilliant diamond set in a slim bezel for a clean, modern ring with soft protection and quiet presence.

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Emerald Bezel

A sleek step-cut diamond secured in a clean bezel for an architectural, understated profile.

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Three-Stone

A center diamond framed by two supporting stones for presence, meaning, and beautiful side views.

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Toi et Moi

Two complementary center stones set together for a personal, sculptural ring with strong custom-design potential.

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Marquise

A dramatic elongated shape with pointed ends, strong finger coverage, and a rare editorial feel.

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Pear Pavé

A pear-shaped center with a fine pavé band for movement, shimmer, and a soft directional silhouette.

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East-West

A center stone set horizontally for a lower, modern line across the finger.

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Vintage Step-Cut

Asscher, emerald, baguette, and antique-inspired geometry with warm detail and measured restraint.

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Guides for this decision

Two loose diamonds beside a grading report, ready for side-by-side inspection

What a Diamond Report Won’t Tell You

Two diamonds with nearly identical grading reports can look completely different in person. What the paper leaves out, and how sellers profit from it.

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An engagement ring design reviewed on screen before production

Custom vs Semi-Custom vs CAD

Custom doesn't automatically mean CAD. The three levels of custom, four worked examples, what each does to the cost, and the decision test I actually use.

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Loose diamonds in several sizes on a jeweler's tray

How Much Should You Spend on an Engagement Ring in San Diego?

How to set an engagement ring budget you won't regret: the three choices that move the price, what San Diego changes, and when to spend less.

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In their words

“We walked in thinking $3,500 wouldn’t get us anything special. Andrew built Jasmine an oval that gets compliments almost weekly, and he never once tried to push us past our number.”

Tyler & Jasmine · Custom oval engagement ring

Questions couples ask before the first appointment

What's the best place to buy an engagement ring in San Diego?

The best place is wherever someone picks the stone for you, builds the ring to order, and isn't paying for a showroom with your money. That's what a private jeweler is. Text me a photo and a number and you'll see the difference in the first reply.

How much does a custom engagement ring cost in San Diego?

It depends on the stone more than anything, and I design to your number rather than the other way around. Text me the range you're comfortable with and I'll tell you plainly what it buys, in writing, before any deposit.

Do you have a store I can visit?

No, and that is deliberate. We start with a consultation call, and most of the planning happens by phone and text from there. Once I have sourced stones for your ring, we meet in person at the Jewelers Exchange and you see them side by side with their reports.

Can I see the diamonds in person before I buy?

Yes, and you should. Two or three stones on the desk, reports beside them, face-up and in profile. If you're outside San Diego, you get photos and video of every candidate instead.

Natural or lab-grown?

Your call. Both are diamonds; they differ in origin and price. I'll put one of each on the desk in your shape if it helps, and I won't push either.

Can you make a ring from a photo I found online?

Yes. Send the screenshot or listing. I'll tell you what the diamond and setting really are, whether to buy it, modify it, or build it, and when the listing is actually the better deal.

Can I use my own diamond or a family stone?

Yes, after I've looked at it. Chips, wear, and the old setting all get checked before I promise anything. Most family stones are fine and beautiful.

How long does a custom engagement ring take?

Most rings finish in about 14 to 30 days once the stone is chosen. CAD builds and unusual stones can run longer, and you'll get a realistic window in writing before any deposit. If there's a date, tell me first and we plan backward from it.

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Close-up custom engagement ring on a woman's left hand ring finger in a private jeweler's studio

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Text Andrew the ring style you keep coming back to.

A photo, sketch, or even a rough idea is enough to start. I can usually tell you whether the smartest path is a sourced diamond, a modified setting, a CAD build, or a short call to compare options.

GIA Applied Jewelry Professional: Trained to judge a diamond by eye, not just by its report.
30+ years in jewelry: Buying and selling diamonds and gold wholesale every week.
Most rings in 14 to 30 days: CAD builds can run longer. You know which yours is up front.
The price in writing first: A written plan and a real number before any deposit.

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Custom engagement rings in San Diego, built around a diamond I picked for you.